“Whenever you’re ready.”  That’s what they always said right before I was about to walk out and perform. I hated it. It would almost be better if they didn’t say it, but I understand why they did. Some people need only a second to gather their focus; others need a few minutes.

Me - I tended to take a second to panic, and then just forget even trying to settle the physical nervousness.  

When Life Throws You a Curveball:

Dealing with an Unexpected Pregnancy while in School

Finding out you're pregnant in the middle of your studies can really mess up your perfect plans for finishing your education, getting your degree or diploma and heading off to the start of your new career. Or does it?